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The perplexities of life in the social network era

Posted by John Lampard on Friday, 29 August, 2008 to the comment subset

Perhaps we should start cataloguing all the quagmires and quandaries that social networks have gone and created for us.

I actually have a queue of friend requests stagnating at each and every social networking site I belong to because I just don’t feel like I’m “friends” with these individuals. And I feel guilty, because even though I know that the web wants me to accept a very broad definition of what a friend is, I cannot help but resist. They’re acquaintances, cool people, etc., but not really friends. Our interactions are amicable, but not at the “friend” level. Admittedly, that’s my own assessment. I feel bad for leaving people hanging, like I am rejecting them.

While some add friends left, right, and centre, like there’s no tomorrow, quite often people they’ve never met, or exchanged no more than a single email with, I for one will only accept friend requests under the strictest of conditions… you ask me. :)

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