Do you think an introverted person is shy, or socially awkward? If you thought yes, then you really need to read more about the myths and misconceptions that surround introverts…
Extroverts are energized by people, and wilt or fade when alone. They often seem bored by themselves, in both senses of the expression. Leave an extrovert alone for two minutes and he will reach for his cell phone. In contrast, after an hour or two of being socially “on,” we introverts need to turn off and recharge. My own formula is roughly two hours alone for every hour of socializing. This isn’t antisocial. It isn’t a sign of depression. It does not call for medication. For introverts, to be alone with our thoughts is as restorative as sleeping, as nourishing as eating. Our motto: “I’m okay, you’re okay – in small doses.”
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Spied this article on the Atlantic Monthly just the other day. Brilliant! I, too, am a socially awkward introvert :)
I’d reply to your comment if I just wasn’t so shy! ;)